Dream about M Was at a like bday party or something but he wasn't there but so many girls there and they were all his exes or women he used to see in the past. They all said he started off w them just hooking then some of them dated some didnt and they just ended it Someone said his brother's the first black liberal conservative, like basically his brother is a whitewashed black guy Just talking to them i felt like everyone's been done super toxic by him and he was extremely cold hearted and rude in even the way he talked to them, they did a lot of nice things for him and were kind to him, but none of them got a kind or sweet version of him except me it felt like everyone already had an understanding it was different with me and him. And i felt like i was "in charge" but i didn't say much at all I just felt quietly surprised and kept it to myself that he treated me the best and felt and inquisitive and suspicious of everyone at first but later I felt happy and kind of surprised when they said their stories with him. And i was thinking of us together and looking at our nice texts towards the end and felt no jealousy towards the women or sadness or anger at all I just accepted his past. Idk how we all gathered but it was like a roundtable in a big house but was like the big brown dining room table i have. I was the one who sat all of us at a roundtable and told each girl to summarize how it went. When it came to me i opened our texts and saw we were sending each other cute memes and cute messages and most of the others said he'd cuss them out. It was like me plus 8-10 women. They were all girls from the past he was not talking to any current day, and they all had the attitude of "i hate this man and id never go back" lol I forgot the later part of the dream but his mom either FaceTimed me or came over and i was alone in the same house and i think we had a daughter like around toddler age she was with and it felt like she was mine, i think we were married now and M was at work or away but i definitely already knew his mom for a while before that.
Dreams often reveal our subconscious thoughts and feelings, providing insight into our emotions and relationships. Your dream about "M" seems to center around themes of past relationships, self-awareness, and evolving dynamics.
Celebration and Reflection: The dream begins at a birthday party — a symbol of celebration and new beginnings. However, the absence of "M" suggests a contemplative state where you are reflecting on his past relationships rather than celebrating him. This setting might indicate a desire for clarification and understanding of your unique position in his life compared to others.
Gathering of Exes: The presence of numerous women who were once involved with "M" indicates that you are processing feelings about competition, acceptance, and the notion of shared histories. While some of these women harbor resentment and toxicity towards him, your dream self emerges as a figure of authority and wisdom, possibly symbolizing your understanding and acceptance of your relationship with "M". Your role in facilitating discussions reveals your leadership qualities and a desire for closure or clarity.
Cold Hearted Nature of "M": The descriptions of "M" as cold-hearted and rude resonate with fears of inadequacy or betrayal. You seem to be recognizing his flaws while also feeling validated in your experiences with him. The contrast between how "M" treated you and how he treated these other women indicates an important insight: your relationship might be rooted in a foundation of respect and kindness that differs significantly from his past. Your dream may encourage you to examine what you value in this relationship and your unique bond with "M".
Acceptance of the Past: There is a significant element of acceptance in your dream. You are unbothered by the narratives of the past relationships, indicating a strong sense of self-worth. The absence of jealousy highlights emotional maturity and confidence in your connection with "M". This acceptance may indicate a readiness to move forward in your relationship without being burdened by his past.
Symbolism of the Toddler and Marriage: The later part of your dream suggests a vision of a future built on stability and family, indicated by the presence of a toddler and a potential marriage to "M". This reflects a deep desire for commitment, legacy, and the nurturing aspect of love. The closeness with his mother represents a connection to family and perhaps a longing for familial acceptance, offering reassurance of your place within "M's" life.
Conclusion: Overall, this dream encapsulates self-reflection, the dynamics of your romantic relationship with "M," and the intricate feelings tied to his past. It urges you to honor your unique experience with him while accepting his history. The blend of contemplation and acceptance suggests you are on a path towards deeper emotional understanding and possibly laying the groundwork for a long-term commitment. Use this dream as an opportunity to explore your feelings further, considering how they influence your present and future.